be like water

The supreme good is like water,
which nourishes all things without trying to.
It is content with low places that people disdain.
Thus it is like the Tao.

In dwelling, live close to the ground.
In thinking, keep to the simple.
In conflict, be fair and generous.
In governing, don't try to control.
In work, do what you enjoy.
In family life, be completely present.

When you are content to be simply yourself
and don't compare or compete,
there is no blame.
-- Stephen Mitchell (Abridged), Chapter 8, Tao Te Ching

Lao Tzu held a bowl of water.

"Look," he said. He poured the water into a glass.

"What did you see?" he asked.

"You pouring water," I said.

"And?"

"The water changed shape."

"Excellent!" he beamed. "Water takes the shape of its container."

"Don't worry." said Jesus, reading my mind. "You won't be a hypocrite. Water is always itself. It just completely fills the situation it is in."

"Do you know that game of rock, paper, scissors?" asked Lao Tzu.

"Yes."

"Always choose water."